how does stripe action the membership on site if monthy? do i need to add anything in stripe? or is it done when user pays? also where is the setting to remind a user (time frame) on if a membership ending in say 3 days?
With stripe recurring billing is handled by amember. On signup user submits CC info to stripe directly via Stripe popup. Then aMember receives payment token from stripe. That token is used to process recurring payments later. Nothing needs to be done in Stripe. In regards to notifications have a look to amember CP -> Protect Content -> Emails \